Spice Up Your Sex Life With Your Wife/Girlfriend

If you have been in a relationship or marriage for a while, then you know how easy it is to slip into a routine with your woman. And just like any other regular activity in your life such as work, gym sessions, eating habits, sex can also slowly develop into a routine and get boring. And we all know this isn't good for lasting love. Especially when you are planning to spend the rest of your life with the person in question. You might even find yourself falling into temptation and seeking out sex thrills from someone else. So if you want your relationship to be always ignited, then you have to turn it on in the bedroom. And you can achieve that through this simple but incredible bedroom spicing up tips. Read on!

Set The Scene

It's not always that your partner will be in the mood for sex. Sometimes you just have to be intentional about getting them into it. A little romantic push from you will go a long way into ensuring both of you enjoy the night away. Get home early, light some scented candles and prepare or order their favorite food. If you have been using the candle trick for a while, then you can use some dim colored lights instead. Turn on your favorite music on the background and sprinkle some rose flowers to create a love walkway. It will be hard to resist!

Pull Some Extraordinary Stunt

If you realize that in recent days you have been busy for each other, then it's time to up your game and do something just out of nowhere. You can, for instance, decide to get partly naked as you prepare dinner, stop by at home on your way to an appointment for a quickie or whisper sweet nothings into her ears as you drive home from work. You can also open the door and join her in the shower if you don't usually do that. So many things you can do. Just be creative in unexpected places and sound naughty!

Build An Anticipation

One of the reasons sex life can get boring is because couples get to a point where they stop luring one another. There is no tension or anticipation to look forward to meeting with you. To spice it up, try texting her in the middle of the day and tell her how much you miss her. If you're good with words, let her know what you will do to her when you meet up. Make it as detailed as possible. She will 'burst" the moment you walk through that door.


Ask Her For Directions

Even if you aren't new to sex, don't just assume that every woman is the same. There are various parts of their body and what turns one on will not necessarily work on another. So take time to ask your woman what they love, which pleasure points are their weakest and how they want to be pleasured. If she's shy, you might not want to ask her directly but bring it up in a random conversation and learn something from her input. You might even be surprised at how wrong you have been doing it all this time.

Bring In Some Sex Toys

Contrary to common assumptions, sex toys aren't only meant to replace you as a partner, they can also be used to add more pleasure and ignite your sex life. The current market place is filled toys for literally any function. For you and for her, for your penis and for her clitoris. So if you are at a point where the mention of the term vibrator turns you on, then you will be glad to know that you aren't alone. The folks at STC found that the best vibrator is the Hitachi Magic Wand. It enjoys a legendary powerful status and has been able to beat the passage of time from the 1960s to the present with incredible innovations. There are also other various vibrators and toys to try out. Be resourceful and pick what you know will blow her mind!

Dress Up For Her

Women are often known to be dressing up for their partners. But do you know that you can also do the same for her? It's time to "pay" back the love! Get some shorts and short-sleeved T-shirts and get provocative for her. You don't have to look like a call boy but do something that will make her remember why she fell for you in the first place. Make her stare and not want to share that look with anyone else. Here, you should just focus on your strong points. Biceps, new beard cut, etc.

Take It Slow

Every time you have sex, you don't have to rush like you are getting late for an appointment. Be intentional about taking it slow from time to time. We are not talking about those quickies, but the real sex in an already set scene. Take time to make out and take in her scent, get her into the climax and then set it back until you both can't hold it anymore. It's said that the actual huge percentage of sex is normally in the making out phase and not in the penetration. Make her experience it. With you.

Get Out Of Bed

Who said that you have to get into bed to have each other? In fact, every time you both find yourselves in a place can be turned into a sexual affair. You even don't have to do it in public. There are so many other sceneries within your home that you can explore each other on. From the patio couch, your private study room desk, the kitchen counter, over the balcony and on the corridor walls. You should, however, tone it down if you have roommates or a not so private compound.


With the passage of time, it's normal for your sex life as a couple to get a little bit less exciting. The good news, however, is that you can revive it once more and enjoy the heated passion you used to at the early stages of your relationship. The above tips will give you a great starting point into making each other happy in the bedroom once more. We hope you find them helpful. It's time to go and explore! All the best.