While some people might focus more on being surprising or novel with their proposal, if you want to create a moment that is truly at its most romantic, then it’s all about making it truly bespoke and meaningful. As such, getting specific to the person that you’re popping the question to might be the best approach. Here, we’re going to look at a few ways that you can make sure that your proposal isn’t just perfect, but perfect for her. 

Showing Her How Much You Really Know Her During Your Proposal

Pick A Proposal Location With Some Meaning

While a great view and a romantic atmosphere can make for a great proposal location, you should pick a place that has real meaning to her. This can be one of her favorite places, somewhere that holds emotional or inspirational value to her. It can also be a place that has meaning for your relationship, whether it’s where you had your first date or the scene of an important past moment in your relationship. Choosing a place that he’s always dreamed of or wanted to go can make it just as meaningful, as well. A purposefully chosen setting shows that you’ve paid attention not only to her preferences but to your shared memories, making it perfect for the culmination of that relationship in the offer of marriage.

Know Her Style When Picking A Ring

While it might be the symbol of your devotion, love, and the next step that you’re willing to take in your relationship, an engagement ring is also a daily reminder of how much you cherish her. It’s something she will be wearing, looking at, and showing off plenty in the days ahead. As such, you want to really make sure it’s her style. Going above and beyond in picking luxury diamond engagement rings shows the importance with which you’re asking the question. Take note of the jewelry she already wears: is it classic, minimalist, vintage, bold, or colorful? Consider her lifestyle too, and whether she prefers something more practical or glamorous.

Make The Moment Fit Her Personality

There are a lot of different ways to pop the question, but if you’re not considering aspects like her comfort levels or expectations, the moment can turn sour, even if she wants it to work as much as you do. Listen and remember to her if she ever talks about proposals, whether she balks at the idea of being asked in a public place and prefers intimacy, or swoons at the grand gestures. Talk to her friends and family, making sure you choose your confidants with care, in what they might think she would want, as they can often be more open in communicating what they know. Keep the proposal authentic to yourself, as well, as you want to be comfortable and confident when you make your speech.

The right proposal isn’t the one that’s most surprising, extravagant, or expensive; it’s the one that has the biggest impact on her as a person. Getting into the nitty-gritty of the details that make up her own wants and your relationship’s history can ensure that you deliver on that.

 

 

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