Unique Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties

Before there’s a big day, there’s a big night. One last night before the end of your freedom, one last night before you’re perpetually tied to the love of your life. Nowadays, bachelor and bachelorette parties have become almost stereotypically ridiculous in their wild and raucous fashion, filled with strip clubs, bars and burlesque shows. For those of you who want a classy, unique or even relaxed day out with your closest friends instead, fear not! We’ve compiled a list of the most unique bachelor and bachelorette parties around. From a trip to a winery to a pampered day at the spa, you’ll have a night—or day—to remember.

The Hornblower

Two words: private yacht. Have you always dreamed of sailing the high seas with your best buds, sipping champagne and admiring the endless horizon? There’s no better time to make that dream a reality than on one of your last days of freedom. The Hornblower’s cachet of private yachts is ready to take your bachelor or bachelorette party to the water for a three hour adventure! Board and savor the taste of champagne and hors d’oeuvre, then choose from Black Jack or Texas hold’em, a Coronado scavenger hunt, blind wine tasting game or limo service to the Gaslamp. A chartered yacht is the perfect way to start your party off with a bang or just to enjoy those sweet hours of premarital bliss.  

Coronado Island

We can’t discuss San Diego bachelor parties without recommending a beach experience! By far, the best beach location for an all–day bachelor or bachelorette party affair is Coronado Island. Sequestered away from the mainland, Coronado offers a cozy bubble of fun activities designed to keep the party going. Home to a myriad of gorgeous parks and beaches, Coronado Island boasts something for everyone. Spend the day laying out on the beach, soaking up the rays. Surf or snorkel in the cool ocean water. Rent a sailboat or catamaran for the day through local companies like Aola Catamaran or Action Sports. Need a break from the outdoor mayhem? Swing by the Hotel Del Coronado to grab a drink and relax at the bar. Coronado is the perfect spot for any outdoorsy brides or grooms to host their dream pre–wedding parties!

Rancho Bernardo Inn Golf Course

Not everyone likes a rough and rowdy bachelor party filled with bar–hopping and debauchery. For a refined and relaxed afternoon with your friends, tee off at the Rancho Bernardo Inn Golf Course. This 18–hole championship golf course is the premiere San Diego golf course to visit. Recently renovated, the Rancho Bernardo Inn Golf Course has previously hosted PGA and LPGA events. Dress up in your finest slacks, break out your clubs and spend your last days of freedom aiming for that flawless hole–in–one! Prices for the Rancho Bernardo Inn Golf Course range from $50–$90 per person, with Resort Club members receiving a discount. A day of golf is a great bachelor party idea for smaller groups; the Rancho Bernardo Inn recommends parties of 5 or fewer. 

Bernardo Winery

Alcohol is a staple of every good bachelor and bachelorette party, so why not visit a local winery? For a classy afternoon sampling delicious wines, visit the Bernardo Winery. Founded in 1889, the Bernardo Winery is a gorgeous vineyard and winery that offers a picturesque setting perfect for any bachelor or bachelorette party. Located in the hills of Rancho Bernardo, this winery has 2,500 grape vines which produce their red and white wines. Bernardo Winery has a cozy tasting room centered in the courtyard where guests can sample different varietals. The property also boasts a cafe, charcuterie and coffee shop for a relaxing break from sampling wine. Even better, Bernardo Winery offers private wine tastings and tours, so you can celebrate with your bridesmaids and groomsmen all day long in a personal setting. Private tours and tastings require an 8 person minimum with a 24 person maximum, and the price ranges from $30–$40 per person. 

Torrey Pines Lodge and Spa

Everyone deserves a little pampering in the days leading up to a wedding. Spend a day at The Spa at Torrey Pines, one of the top spas in North County. This spa offers anything and everything you could possibly want, from manicures and pedicures to massages and body wraps. Indulge in a cleansing facial or splurge on a hair care treatment. Unwind and be pampered before your wedding day! Unsure which spa treatments are right for you? The Spa at Torrey Pines offers resort specials and rituals that combine various treatments into one neat package. One incredible offer, for example, is the Day of Bliss, which includes two 50 minute treatments and lunch at A.R. Valentien, the Torrey Pines Lodge’s restaurant. 

Hard Rock Hotel

The Hard Rock Hotel in downtown San Diego offers a more traditional bachelor and bachelorette party with a fun flair. For those who want to feel like the ultimate rock star, the Hard Rock Hotel offers a rock–royalty experience. Some of the VIP perks of the Hard Rock Hotel include FLOAT, the rooftop bar, the 207 nightclub and room delivery bottle service. You and your wedding party can dance the night away and live it up without ever leaving the property! Since it’s located in the heart of downtown, the Hard Rock Hotel is also the perfect bachelor or bachelorette party location for anyone hoping to barhop or explore all the Gaslamp Quarter has to offer. Rooms for the Hard Rock Hotel range from $127-$600 a night. The Diamond Rock Star Suite is $900 a night.