Tips for Matching Groomsmen Suits to Wedding Themes

Can you hear the wedding bells ringing already? Is the most anticipated day in your life approaching, faster than the speed of light? While your wife-to-be is busy sorting out the floral arrangement and ensuring the seating arrangement for the guests doesn't create a hostile environment, you have only two critical things to handle - nailing your wedding suit and ensuring your groomsmen look dashing without clashing with your wedding theme. 

Assuming you have nailed your wedding suit and your would-be wife approves, let's deal with the next dilemma - groomsmen attire. Now, don't feel too stressed because this guide is here to help you navigate this difficult journey with as much help as you need. 

So, let's take a look. 

First things first: Know your wedding theme 

Discuss with your fiance and your wedding planner to ensure you know what your wedding theme is. Whether it is a simple church ceremony, a metropolitan soiree, a beach wedding, or the backdrop is the sun-drenched vineyards, make sure you know. This will help you in making informed, dapper decisions. 

Second: Let's get down to business matching the groomsmen's suits to the wedding theme 

Identify the primary and secondary colors of your wedding theme 

Identifying the primary and secondary colors that will be used during your wedding ceremony helps in narrowing down your sartorial choices. 

Typically, the primary colors should be reserved for the bridesmaids or groomsmen. Discuss with your fiance to ensure the same colors are not being used for both. Whichever color is chosen for the bridesmaids, the groomsmen must wear the opposite to create a visually delightful picture. 

To give you some example, here are some themes and the colors you can choose for your groomsmen:

• Rustic wedding themes call for a whole lot of natural hues, such as navy blue, green, and the like. To elevate the rustic charm, you can think of suits in textured fabrics like tweed or linen. 

• Is the theme romance? If your wedding decoration screams romance and love, you can dress your boys in suits in pastel shades. Or, maybe, floral prints. These prints will instantly add a pop of color and make your boys shine as they stand next to you at the altar. 

• Getting married on the beach? The beachy vibes can be captured in the groomsmen's suits in the form of light neutral hues, such as sky blue, oyster, or sand. Linen would be the ideal material because it is light and breezy. 

• If the wedding ceremony is classy and at par with a black-tie event, you can consider dressing up your boys in velvet or satin. Play with colors like black, charcoal, or silver, as they exude a sense of sophistication. 

By using these tips and suggestions as the starting point, you can put your own sartorial spin on choosing wedding suits for groomsmen. Also, please make sure the suits are not in any way similar to the one you will be wearing because you are the star of your D-day. 

Pro tip: Ensure the groomsmen's attire compliments the bridesmaid's dresses. 

Point to consider: How formal is the ceremony? 

There's no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to planning a wedding. Some like their wedding ceremony to be an all-formal affair, while others like to inject a bit of playful personality. Which way do you sway?

The groomsmen suits you choose must match the formality and tone of your wedding theme. For instance, if it is going to be a sophisticated, formal event, three-piece suits or a crisp tuxedo will do wonders and help your boys truly stand out. If your wedding ceremony will be held outdoors or the theme is casual and fun, suits without vests and other relaxed styles will be more apt. 

Experiment with patterns 

Formal wedding? You can never go wrong with the classic pinstripe, as it lends a sophisticated look and feel to the suits. But if the vibe of the wedding ceremony is casual and you want everyone to have fun, checks might be more appropriate. Herringbone is also an excellent option to check out because this pattern is timeless. 

You can talk to a fashion designer for more tips on how you can incorporate and experiment with patterns. Or if your would-be wife is a self-proclaimed fashionista, you can seek her help. 

Remember, a tailored fit is non-negotiable 

No matter the theme of the wedding, you cannot have your groomsmen roaming around in ill-fitted suits. Be it a formal affair or a casual outdoor wedding, make sure the suits fit and make your boys shine. They may have to make multiple visits to the tailor, but it will be all worth it in the end. Or you can opt for customized groomsmen suits. 

Third: Accessorize!

So, you thought your work was done after you had chosen the right color and material for the groomsman suit? Although kudos to you because you have come so far and ensured the suits fit and match the wedding theme, there's still some more work left. 

You cannot have your wedding party wear a well-fitting suit without the right accessories because that is styling 101. 

The accessories that match and complement suits are pocket squares, bowties, ties, and cufflinks. These accents not only elevate the ensemble but also inject it with personality. You can also match these accessories with the theme of your wedding. A novel idea would be to have your groomsmen wear customized cufflinks with the initials of the bridge and the groom. This will even double as a wedding keepsake so everyone remembers your special day for posterity. 

Besides these, remember that the accessories and styling elements must also be consistent with the overall theme. 

Fourth: Consult with your would-be wife!

This is probably the most important tip, and forgive us for putting this as number four. Whatever you choose, let her in on it. Ensure she is on board with your choices and that they are in sync with what she had envisioned for her D-day. 

If you skip this tip, we can only pray for your happy marriage (just kidding!). 

Pro tip: Consult with your photographer as well. The photographer will be able to tell you the colors and patterns that will appear visually impressive in the photos against the backdrop of your wedding venue. 

Let's sum this up for you:

• Color coordination is an essential part of finding the right suits for your groomsmen. Match the suit color with the wedding theme and also ensure it is not in direct conflict with the bridesmaid dresses. 

• The color of the groomsmens' suits must not be the same as the groom's suit. It must be complementary. It is best to avoid contradictory colors on your special day. You must shine while making them look good. 

• Think about accessorizing so that the ensemble is elevated and they look good standing next to you as you are waiting for your fiance at the altar. You can consider cufflinks, bowties, ties, suspenders, and so on. 

• Don't forget about customizing the fit. The suits must not be ill-fitting, or they won't add visual interest. They will seem like misfits in the wedding pictures. 

• Remember to discuss every little detail with your fiance. Also, asking for help from your wedding planner, the wedding photographer, and maybe a fashion designer or someone with a keen eye for details won't hurt. 

So, has this solved your sartorial dilemma? Keep in mind these tips to ensure your groomsmen appear suave, but not as much as you (of course!). To ensure their suits don't match with yours, shop for them after you have chosen the color and pattern of your suit. Then, match their suits with yours. Also, check what the bridesmaids are wearing so that the groomsmen don't appear out of place. 

If there's nothing else, hurry up and get married! All the best! 

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